FOUR GIFTS FOR A LIFETIME LOVE
When Carlos & I exchange rings on our wedding day, we know what promise they will symbolize.
As we put the ring on each other’s fingers, We know that by giving to each other the Four Gifts of Love we will be able to have the most of our married life…
The gift of Care
I promise to meet the most important emotional needs of my husband…
Carlos & I try to become experts at meeting each other’s emotional needs because by doing so we have made an effort to learn what to do to make each other happy and contented. We are each others greatest source not just of Happiness but of Joy until now, and that we will continue throughout our lives together.
My loving husband and I care for each other so much.
The Gift of Protection
I promise to avoid being the cause of your unhappiness.
After we are got married, we did our best to become expert at meeting each other’s important Emotional Needs. We became the cause of each other’s Happiness. But unless we do something to prevent it, then it can become the cause of each other’s greatest unhappiness. That is why the Gift of Protection is so important to us.
We sometimes get angry, disrespectful, demanding and annoying and sometimes dishonest, these are all normal human traits.. But if we promise to avoid the cause of our partner’s unhappiness, we will do whatever it takes to overcome these destructive tendencies for each other’s Protection.
By eliminating such things, we will not only be protecting our partner, we will also be preserving our partners love for us.
Almost everything we do will affect each other. So it’s important to know what that effect will be. By making mutual acceptable choices and decisions, we will be able to create a lifestyle that both of us will enjoy.
Neither of us wants to hurt each other. Yet, if you’re not careful, you can become the greatest cause of each other’s unhappiness. And if you do not make a special effort to Protect each other that can be a great problem.
The Gift of Honesty
I promise to be honest with Him for life.
Our promise to be honest requires us to be honest about our feelings, our personal history, or current activities and experiences and future plans.. It is Completely Honesty..
It won’t be easy for us to keep our promise to be honest. Honesty is an unpopular value these days, and most couples have not made this commitment to each other.
Honesty will not only bring us closer to each other emotionally, it will also prevent the creation of destructive habits that are kept secret from each other.
Over the years I am so proud to say that I always been so open and honest to my husband, and there is nothing that he doesn’t know.
The Gift of Time
I promise to take time to give my undivided attention
Time is also a basic requirement for marriage. Time for undivided attention is the necessary ingredients for everything that’s important in our marriage.
The lack of private time together will become a great cause of unhappiness, but then my husband and I promise each other the Gift of Time, and that we will not let anything or anyone steal from us those precious hours together.
When Carlos & I exchange rings on our wedding day, we know what promise they will symbolize.
As we put the ring on each other’s fingers, We know that by giving to each other the Four Gifts of Love we will be able to have the most of our married life…
The gift of Care
I promise to meet the most important emotional needs of my husband…
Carlos & I try to become experts at meeting each other’s emotional needs because by doing so we have made an effort to learn what to do to make each other happy and contented. We are each others greatest source not just of Happiness but of Joy until now, and that we will continue throughout our lives together.
My loving husband and I care for each other so much.
The Gift of Protection
I promise to avoid being the cause of your unhappiness.
After we are got married, we did our best to become expert at meeting each other’s important Emotional Needs. We became the cause of each other’s Happiness. But unless we do something to prevent it, then it can become the cause of each other’s greatest unhappiness. That is why the Gift of Protection is so important to us.
We sometimes get angry, disrespectful, demanding and annoying and sometimes dishonest, these are all normal human traits.. But if we promise to avoid the cause of our partner’s unhappiness, we will do whatever it takes to overcome these destructive tendencies for each other’s Protection.
By eliminating such things, we will not only be protecting our partner, we will also be preserving our partners love for us.
Almost everything we do will affect each other. So it’s important to know what that effect will be. By making mutual acceptable choices and decisions, we will be able to create a lifestyle that both of us will enjoy.
Neither of us wants to hurt each other. Yet, if you’re not careful, you can become the greatest cause of each other’s unhappiness. And if you do not make a special effort to Protect each other that can be a great problem.
The Gift of Honesty
I promise to be honest with Him for life.
Our promise to be honest requires us to be honest about our feelings, our personal history, or current activities and experiences and future plans.. It is Completely Honesty..
It won’t be easy for us to keep our promise to be honest. Honesty is an unpopular value these days, and most couples have not made this commitment to each other.
Honesty will not only bring us closer to each other emotionally, it will also prevent the creation of destructive habits that are kept secret from each other.
Over the years I am so proud to say that I always been so open and honest to my husband, and there is nothing that he doesn’t know.
The Gift of Time
I promise to take time to give my undivided attention
Time is also a basic requirement for marriage. Time for undivided attention is the necessary ingredients for everything that’s important in our marriage.
The lack of private time together will become a great cause of unhappiness, but then my husband and I promise each other the Gift of Time, and that we will not let anything or anyone steal from us those precious hours together.
Marriage is not just A Contract, not just a simple ceremony to bind two hearts to be one.
Marriage for me & Carlos is " A Covenant "
